PERSON+ABILITY= PERSONALITY
The ability to define the qualities of being a person is personality. That means a person should be able to know his/her skills, abilities, strengths, weaknesses, qualities and what not. By virtue of this, we can achieve wonderful and colourful results, bring laurels to our life and can create a congenial atmosphere for us as well as for others. Acknowledging oneself is basically the first and most vital way to improve one's self-confidence. Many a time, individuals wish to improve their self-confidence, by projecting the identical form of self esteem that they see other individuals possessing, and so they desire to act just how those people do. Outgoing and extrovert people could be outgoing naturally or may possibly talk a great deal to hide their nervousness; however that doesn't mean they are always comfortable and contented. On the other hand, a person who is normally introvert and shy could be very confident and self-assured. Hence, we should not always look at transforming ourselves to resemble others. On the contrary, we should concentrate on realizing who we are and be comfortable with that in order to witness drastic changes in personality.
Strong Character Shapes Personality
Building a character is a million dollar question for every individual. No other person can be instrumental in making you mentally and physically strong and powerful. None can turn you from weak to powerful, unsuccessful to successful and from nothing to everything. You have the ability and potential of becoming everything and anything. In today's materialistic world there is a rat race for achieving things at supersonic speed and there is chaos all around. Thus, there is sense of great dissatisfaction. We wish to achieve more money, more comfort and luxuries as compared to other. This hunger for unlimited luxury has overpowered us to such an extent that we do not hesitate in fulfilling our desires even at the cost of spoiling and ruining our relations with others. In today's earthly world, the success of an individual is judged by his/her materialistic achievements. Therefore, we adopt all fair and unfair means to attain materialistic components. If we look around, we can find many rich and luxurious people but not good human beings. People who are engaged in achieving materialistic things remain busy in developing only one aspect of their personality. The result is that their entire personality becomes imbalanced and controversial. Any person, who wants to attain the highest pinnacle of success in his/her life, should meticulously work upon building a progressive and strong personality.
In the rapidly changing world, new values, opportunities have appeared in the fields of industries and management. People whose hearts are filled with human values, are blessed with special abilities and welcome new possibilities in life. There is certainly ample scope of progress for them. It is evident that most of the people working in any industry are able, agile, experts and inspiring. Undoubtedly, automation plays an eminent role for industrial growth, but we can not ignore human contribution for the same. In fact, it is the ability, behavioral excellence, enthusiasm and dedication of the people that can also give a proper shape to the organization. Excellence means to have complete control over our work ethics, aims, habits, experiences and passions rather than become their slaves. There are immense possibilities within us to develop our personality with strong character. We must recognize and understand them to succeed. The wealth that we have earned is not important but what is important is the means we have adopted for acquiring that wealth. The seeds of great personality are hidden in every individual and we have just to unveil them.
Be nice to others
It costs nothing to be polite and nice to others, but it definitely makes us rich. It is a relief for tired and nature's best gift to the sufferer. The million dollar sentences "You have a nice personality/ you are a very nice person" make us feel honored and pleased. Personality should be pleasing and attractive so that it should impress others, but it can not be achieved if we are not polite and soft spoken. Good qualities can only be constructed on the foundation of politeness. Polite and cultured people are clear and transparent to all; such people have a Midas touch in their conduct and behavior, and miracle in their deeds too. They cast permanent impression on the mind of everybody with their etiquettes. Useful and sweet conversation is considered a blessing for speech. Many a time we spoil our work by unnecessary dialogue and conversation. Society gives respect to a person who has control over his speech and everybody wants to converse with a person who is sweet spoken. That is why we should always inculcate sweet and soft spoken words in our speech. Sweetly spoken words have their own advantage in making a great personality.
Do retain superiority
Human being is considered superior and intelligent as compared to rest of the creatures. Life is like a blooming flower and it is the supreme gift of nature. Life is full of sorrows and happiness. When one comes the other goes, but we should try and develop such an attitude that we may be able to lead a happy and balanced life under all circumstances. A good natured and jolly person, who is always smiling, attracts people towards him/her. It has been wisely said that "Thornless roses have not yet been invented". So people who wish to become beautiful and popular like a rose must learn the art of smiling and developing in life which is full of thorns as well.
To reach the highest pinnacle of success we must have the ability to judge people correctly. It has been emphasized in holy books that we must behave in a desired manner. We have the treasure of trust and respect, but we should not waste it on anyone who is not worthy of. Nothing is going to work out if we blame our fate and circumstances. In fact, one has to reflect enthusiastic and pleasant personality to be the role model for others.
"COLOURFUL PERSONALITY: A WIN-WIN ASPECT"
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